Why Relationships Fail and How to Fix It with Keion Henderson
Learn how understanding trauma, attachment styles, and emotional patterns can help you build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
This week, Pastor Keion Henderson drops some serious wisdom from his new book Lazy Love , and shares the four key threats that can shake even the strongest relationships. He gets real about his own journey—growing up with a single mom, feeling overlooked, and turning that pain into purpose. Keion also shares practical tools to help you understand yourself and your relationships through the lens of attachment styles. If you’ve ever felt unseen, struggled with intimacy, or questioned how you show up in love—this episode is for you.
In this episode:
- Why Keion’s church resonates with the overlooked
- Understanding “Lazy Love” and its roots
- How trauma influences our relationships
- The four attachment styles and how to recognize them
- Navigating relationships through attachment awareness
- Keys to building a successful relationship
Here is my favorite quote from this episode:
“Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die to get there.” - Keion Henderson
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Keion Henderson
Pastor / Author / CEO
Keion D. Henderson is a bestselling author, spiritual leader, and Founder, CEO, and Senior Pastor of The Lighthouse Church in Houston, Texas, one of America's fastest-growing churches. With over 26 years of ministry, Pastor Henderson leads a congregation of 15,000+ members and reaches over 800,000 weekly viewers globally. Known for empowering others through faith-based teachings and entrepreneurship, he impacts communities through his non-profit, Take Action Now. A passionate humanitarian, Pastor Henderson has been recognized by The John Maxwell Institute as one of the Top 250 Leaders in the nation. He is a devoted father to Katelyn and husband to Shaunie Henderson.
